Posted on Jun 5th, 2008
by
Andrei
The thought has come into my mind so regularly lately – the connection of a dirty dish to personal responsibility. I had the thought a few weeks ago that a single dirty dish left in a sink leads to another, then a spoon, then a pan and next thing you know there is a sink full of dirty dishes that no one seems to feel responsible for or everyone does and no one does... Everyone ends up thinking what pigs other people are and at the same time not positive that they didn’t drop a spoon or cup into the mix.
Now, I have a baby girl and everyone knows babies triple the amount of dishes in your sink just by having them in the house with you. I also work at a company with a common sink and a small kitchen. This really is a perfect condition to be surrounded by dirty dishes, and let me tell you that I am pretty regularly doing dishes that I don’t think I made but can’t be certain.
So the idea each time I make a dish dirty to immediately wash it began to feel like an essential connection to my responsibility where the dishes are concerned. I am not sure why but I began to consider the utility of washing your dishes immediately after dirtying them. I thought the following things relevant in that consideration:
• If I wash a dish immediately it takes less water to clean it
• It also takes less elbow grease
• It also takes less soap and possibly less thorough or obsessive cleaning – i.e. if I had a few almonds in a bowl obviously it is a different cleaning event than if I ate chicken (not that I eat chicken as a vegan)
• I feel better about myself and am not creating yet another item that I must come back to later
• I are not putting the responsibility on someone else.
• Dishes are less likely to be broken when they are washed as they are dirtied and not as a massive sink full of dishes
• And my favorite – I am not creating a giant gyre of all the meals, germs and moments of a kitchen’s comings and goings in a sink for some poor sap to clean up. This means someone’s pan from cooking up some sausage isn’t set on top of all the dirty cereal bowls and then cups of coffee poured out on top of them, etc.
A while back I found a really cool large bowl in a pottery shop and for a while I was eating all of my meals out of it. I thought it was cool at the time to be developing a regular relationship with this cool art object / dish. It felt very Zen whatever that means – kill the Buddha etc. Seriously though, it felt more intentional and deliberate. It felt slow. It felt sustainable. It felt like I was taking responsibility for that small corner of my life that is the dishes. I also found I was more likely to wash it immediately. Then of course I started traveling and got busy and got out of the habit but I think these thoughts are reminders that in every corner of life there is something fine to be discovered when you set yourself responsibly in the act.
There is a bowl on the corner of my desk that I just finished using. I am going to wash my dish.